Sunday, August 22, 2010

New relationship advice?

I recently begun speaking to a guy from my job- we work on the same floor and he's liked me for months now. He gave me roses for my Bday last week and we went out over the weekend- a real gentleman! He says he wants to treat me like a Queen and that he has a lot planned for us, he likes my swagger, how pretty I am, my confidence, sarcasm, all the good stuff. I been in relationships before and it always sounds good in the beginning but things can change. I'm not sure how I should approach this relationship. Please helpNew relationship advice?
Great start, it sounds that he really likes you. If you want the spark to keep going you need to not be the nice girl who's always available even if it's tempting. When the man invites you out, he deep down doesn't want you to always be available. Having plans with your family and friends as well makes you look more interesting and he'll want to be part of your interesting life. Nicely decline some of his invitations explaining that other days work better for you. Don't over do it and don't make it clear you're playing the game; play it smart :) and gentle. Men are hunters, give him the chance to practice what he loves; chasing you. He'll love you more when he finally win your heart. He'll cherish you more because he worked harder to get you.





Never show him that you totally made up your mind about him right away, he'll think it was easy and will wonder how many guys could have won that girl. It's stupid I know, but guys minds work like that. Mention the word fun; men like that. Like you can say, I had so much fun tonight, or you're so much fun. The word fun means no pressure for the man. If he pressures you into telling him what you think about him, you can say that you like him and things are going well but you;re still deciding, laugh a little after that as if it was a joke (but he'll get it). If he rushes you into things, don't, as this is the danger zone. Pleasing him at this point means you lost the game, go with your own pace and if he's the one he'll stick around and treat you like a queen. Because you are a queen :) remember that.





Good luck!New relationship advice?
not to bust your bubble but ive found that dating people i work with or have to come into contact with the majority of the time can be difficult. it gets complicated if your not very careful. not to jinx your situation or anything but if you both dont work out, will it be really awkward or can you both continue to be professional while at work? just something to consider
approach it one day at a time, and remember that without communication, it will fail, so remember to talk and share.
go slow, aske yourself what you're learned from the past relationships and don't do it again.

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