Monday, August 23, 2010

I'm 16 and starting a new school....any advice?

Kinda worried because I have an illness which means I had to stop going to the boarding school I was in. I really don't wanna be known as the sick kid.I'm 16 and starting a new school....any advice?
unless you show it, no one will know you're concerns about your illness. you don't have to tell anyone if you don't want to. stay positive, and have fun! new schools are exciting.I'm 16 and starting a new school....any advice?
i promise you, people aren't that cruel. i'm in year 10 and i know when you think ';secondary'; everyone thinks, gobby, horrible kids who have nothing better to do but bully and torture people.


but honestly as long as you come across as the type of person that knows how to have a laugh and are spot on (don't forget, yourself), people will forget that you have an illness.


if your illness is visible though, it could be a little harder but as long as no one knows about it, what can people do but speculate?


if people aren't sure they tend not to even mention it of fear of embarrassment.


but because you are in the older years people are a lot more grown up and want to know you for who you are not what you've got. And i'm sure you can handle a few ';i think i'm so cool';(but i'm not) years 7's.


hope i helped, good luck with th new school :D
Be truthful about your illness and dont listen to the kid about being 10 inches, just be pretty quiet and humble, try not to get on anyones bad side and BIGGIE...make friends with dudes before you make friends with chicks cuz if you appear to be getting attention from some girls then the guys might resent you before getting a chance to know you, and you could end up with some guys ex and that wouldnt be good at all ha. well good luck
I mean.... if your sick your sick. Dont let people get you down. Just be normal dont be like yeah i sick and be all shy. Show your true personality. Let that shine above your sickness.





Believe me if you let yourself be you then people really dont pay it any mind. Sure, people might say yeah he has an illness but they wont go awww he sick blah blah blah.....because that all they can say about you. Give them something to talk about other than that.





If people are still like that then they are not worth your time. Keep your head up and find people that will look past that. Dont go out your way to impress someone who doesnt see you for who you really are.





I'm sure you'll do great!


Good luck on your new school.
Just be nice and don't get too worried about your illness messing up your schoolmates' impressions about you. Try making friends. Friends accept you for who you are, whatever your condition is.


Don't go wandering alone and looking lonely all of the time. Give those who notice you a warm smile. (Cause if you gave them all a warm smile, they might think that it's just a fake smile...)
Don't do anything under peer pressure.. As cool or exciting as it may seem then, in a few years you will never see or care for these kids again, so don't waste your time and do anything out of your comfort range to impress them.
So don't let our illness define you. Always stay upbeat, and if you don't want to talk about your illness, don't. Only share it with people who are friends and who won't label you for it. All the other people can suck it.
act as if you don't. that's all.


and be friendly... be friends with who you want to be friends with, but choose your friends carefully. you don't want to get stuck with the wrong crowd...
go up to the school bully and clock him in the nose and before he knows whats going on kick him in the ribs and just pound away. People will fear you from then on.
GOOD.LUCK.


no but seriously no ones going to bother u..


no one bothers ';sick kids'; they wont be mean..


people make them out to be monsters but if u have the right friends and the right confidence, high school will be the best time of your life.(:
School years are always the hardest...some people judge to early so try get to no new friends who understand :) best of luck in your new school x
sell your medicinal marijuana and you can be everyones friend
act confident but not 2 confident tht u come out snobby...


talk 2 whoever u sit next 2 in ur first class...





whoever slags someone coz of an illness is quite frankly sad and immature
Just be kind to everyone and you'll be fine.
Just be yourself.
dont tell anyone
condoms in your bookbag and wallet.


tell everyone your rich and it's 10 inches soft

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