10 points best answer!!!!!!!!! crush has a new girlfriend, advice on how to cope?

so my crush of about 4 months has a new girlfriend. i really like him and we are still friends. we get along great and we have the exact same sense of humor. as of 3 days ago, he has a new girfriend (who i wasnt fond of to begin with) since we are friends and im not a *****, i don't plan on interfeering and trying to get with him, since he is taken. i just need some advice on how to deal with the pain in my heart when i see them together(holding eachother, kissing, etc.)


also i don't know whether i shoul try and remain friends with him for hope that someday it will work out adn just to enjoy his friendship because i enjoy being around him.... or should i just try and forget about him completley so it won't hurt as much.


i just need some girl advice, please help!10 points best answer!!!!!!!!! crush has a new girlfriend, advice on how to cope?
Oh snap. This same thing happened to me today, and many times in the past.





So ive been liking this guy, for quite a long time. Like really really liking him. He is so sweet, and funny. Like you I love his company. We are friends, in a way. So today I was at school, and next thing I know I hear ';Adam and ____'; are dating.'; Oh man I was so mad, and heartbroken. Still am right now. And what hurts even more is that people keep saying ';there such a cute couple.'; uhmm no there not, me and him would have been so much better.





So what am I doing?





Im just gonna support there relationship as that would be the best thing to do. Although deep down I will hope that they break up.


I will try to keep busy, hopefully I will meet some other boys and meet a new guy that I can crush on.





I suggest you do the same.





Just keep busy that way you wont be able to think about it. There are other fish in the sea. Who knows maybe they will eventually break up.





I say that you remain friends with him. I plan on remaining friends with my crush. If he cant be my boyfriend, well a friend is better than nothing.10 points best answer!!!!!!!!! crush has a new girlfriend, advice on how to cope?
well if yu like him theres nutin wrong with tryn to get him to like yu alls fair in love nd war so who cares if hes taken..or maybe hes not the one 4 yu nd yur guy will come soon butt since yu just wanna get over it i wuld say spend some time on yur self maybe change yur look get a new hair cut do something to make yur self feel good nd start to be independent act like yu can have any guy nd maybe yull find one.
well not quite a female perspective but.....next time you see them just remember. Its not going to last. and when the time finally comes you can swoop in and get him! in the mean time just surround yourself with friends and do things to get him off your mind.
Remain friends if its too hard to do that forget him. He obviously isnt worth your time i mean he hasnt picked you yet.you need a guy who is a good friend but he needs to relize faster how amazing you are.
Find things to do to keep busy and keep your mind off the situation. Friends, family, interests and hobbies, whatever you do. If you're idle your mind will go straight to the endless loop of thoughts about him, and you'll irritate yourself without accomplishing anything.





Take this as a good challenge, dealing with your own emotions. This probably won't be the last time you're in this kind of situation. How well can you handle it, and be gracious in 'defeat'? Can you play like a champion? Can you be a great friend even when you're hurting? It will say a lot about your character if you can overcome this.





Be ready, for when he breaks up with her, to make your move and go for him.
I am pretty much in the same boat. (It's almost freakish how similar our situations are...) As for dealing with seeing them together, there is nothing that can really be done except for taking a deep breath, and walking in the other direction. If walking in the other direction is not an available option, a smile and a polite attitude not only makes everything as stress-less as possible, but helps your reputation as well. People tend to like other nice people! :)





Whether you should remain friends with him is something that you will have to figure out for yourself. Ask yourself a few questions: Is there a chance at a relationship if this new one goes south? How big is that chance? Do I want to date him, or have I just fallen in love with the idea of dating him? Is this friendship worth being okay with just being friends? Is the hurt/heartache worth his company?





And trust me, it'll get easier. It doesn't seem like it now, but it will.