We had 2 cats when we moved into the house we live in now. One older male, and one older female. They didn't like each other, but didn't bother each other either.
About a year after moving in, we got a young (year old) male cat.
(name is Walrus) He REALLY admired our older male cat (name is Calvin) Calvin was like a mentor to Walrus, Walrus followed him around, and always did what he did. Which involved tom-cat like stuff, cause Calvin was a tough ';manly man'; kind of cat.
Calvin always cried/screamed at night after his brother (Hobbs) died, which was a few years before we even moved into this house. Then after Calvin died (a couple years after Walrus moved in), Walrus started screaming every night as well.
Now it's only Walrus, because our female kitty died from old age as well. We've fostered kittens %26amp; cats before, and Walrus really didn't like that. He started spraying around the house. He didn't attack them or anything, just sprayed, and got a little hostile.
Just this year, he's been having patches of fur missing, scratches %26amp; scabs, plus swollen areas across his face because of neighborhood cat fights.
We've wanted another cat for quite some time now, but don't know if that's even possible, with Walrus. The other day, we were at a cat shelter, and saw a 3 year old male cat that looked just like Calvin. He was very mellow, %26amp; sweet.
Would Walrus be more accepting of this cat because he looks so identical to his past beloved companion? Or would this just upset him? Any suggestions as to what kind of cat would be best for Walrus? We need help!!
+ thank you very much for reading all this.... if you have. :D I know it's a lot, but I just thought that the more detail, the easier it would be to understand and help us.New cat advice? Please help?
Hi, if in the past he wasn't keen on the cats you brought home, i would be cautious. I think it wouldbe best if you explained this to the shelter and asked if maybe you could take him home for say... 1-2 weeks to see how they get along, i am sure they'd understand as they want the best for the animals too. That way, you get to see if it would work out, and if it doesnt no harm.
You said the cat was very mellow, i can't see a problem he's not a kitten and could maybe be an older companion for Walrus
but becareful as he may ony have likes calvin because he was there before him.
I would ask your shelter if you can bring him home for a certain amount of time and see how you get on.
good luck, i hope it works out
Jess.New cat advice? Please help?
I think a younger cat, even a kitten, preferably female would be easier for Walrus to accept. The fact that the cat you have seen looks like Calvin will mean nothing to him. It was Calvins presence and personality that he admired, what he looked like didnt come into it.
i don't think an identical cat is the solution.. Walrus liked Calvin for who he was right? search up what breed of cat he was (for characteristic purposes) and find one with a similar attitude who would like Walrus
yeah- i think you should get the cat, he is probably very lonely right now and could use a buddy, and if he has been getting in fights with other cats then maybe try keeping him inside more often
Hi
Thanks for caring.
As long as you can deal with the spraying for a while, there is no reason not to get this other cat. You have been lucky. It can take a bit of time for things to settle down and for them to be friends. Make sure you keep the hierarchy and that this cat you get won't be the number 1
cat.
I don't think the looks matter
Best of luck
Thursday, July 29, 2010
New friend advice PLEASE!!!?
have a semi new friend who I just adore. All my other friends have moved away and she is a new friend so I want to do whatever I can to keep this friendship healthy and balanced. I listen to her problems hours on end. And she can freak over the weirdest things. To me they are sometimes so ridiculous but I listen attentively anyways. If I have a problem with someone she will never listen she just defends them no matter what they did to me even if she doesn't know them. It's really annoying . When she tells me about how someone upset her I never defend the other person. I don't take sides I just try to see it through her eyes. Yesterday I had asked for some advice about an email I was writing to a family member and she completely picked the email apart, going overboard and making me feel shitty. She started getting stressed so I just said thanks for the advice and dropped it before she started freaking out on me. How do I deal with this? She wants me to always be the happy fun person?New friend advice PLEASE!!!?
From what i can gather, it seems as if this person will not become the friend you want them to be. There are many people like this in the world and they are generally takers rather than givers. I understand that with women especially its quite necessery to take sides with the persons with whom you are friends with (unless you are looking to give them some perspective) so the fact that she is not suggests that she is trying to bring your confidence down and that she is quite a seld-centered person. Whilst you may want to try this new friendship out, i suggest you dont put all your eggs in one basket and join some hobby groups or friendship internet site to find new friends that care about you.New friend advice PLEASE!!!?
If there is no proper, there cannot exist friendship.
Soon you will realize.
Have friendship for the sake of friendship, not out of compulsion. Wait till you get true friends.
She is selfish, and not what I would consider to be a good friend. She's sounds like it's just all about her. If you want to remain a sounding board for her, and then have her be critical of you and what you do, then have at it. You say she is a semi new friend and you adore her? How can one adore someone that is critical of their friend? She wants you to always be the happy fun person??? Sounds like she wants you to jump through hoops for her, just to make her happy. Inform her, it's not all about her. I wouldn't tolerate this ';friendship'; if you want to call it that for very long.
From what i can gather, it seems as if this person will not become the friend you want them to be. There are many people like this in the world and they are generally takers rather than givers. I understand that with women especially its quite necessery to take sides with the persons with whom you are friends with (unless you are looking to give them some perspective) so the fact that she is not suggests that she is trying to bring your confidence down and that she is quite a seld-centered person. Whilst you may want to try this new friendship out, i suggest you dont put all your eggs in one basket and join some hobby groups or friendship internet site to find new friends that care about you.New friend advice PLEASE!!!?
If there is no proper, there cannot exist friendship.
Soon you will realize.
Have friendship for the sake of friendship, not out of compulsion. Wait till you get true friends.
She is selfish, and not what I would consider to be a good friend. She's sounds like it's just all about her. If you want to remain a sounding board for her, and then have her be critical of you and what you do, then have at it. You say she is a semi new friend and you adore her? How can one adore someone that is critical of their friend? She wants you to always be the happy fun person??? Sounds like she wants you to jump through hoops for her, just to make her happy. Inform her, it's not all about her. I wouldn't tolerate this ';friendship'; if you want to call it that for very long.
New Puppy Advice?
I picked up my new puppy yesterday, he's gorgeous and loves cuddles. Now, I have a couple of issues that I need help with.
Firstly, I'm house training him the same way as I did my last dog. Taking him out in the garden every 30 mins, after sleep, play, meal etc - saying a key word, and praising like mad when he goes. Last night was very long winded as he seemed scared of the dark and outside, so was only weeing when I bought him back in. Through the night and today he's been very good, and seems to be toileting on command when I take him out. However, when he's running around inside, he still toilets randomly - so I'm wondering if I'm doing something wrong.
Also, I'm back at work (4 hours) Mon, and I'm struggling with where to leave him. I popped out today for 2 hours, and left him in his box, and he was still asleep when I came back. Obviously he won't stay asleep for 4 hours, so I need to restrict him to one room - is this ok? But I assume I should expect lots of mess!New Puppy Advice?
Its completely normal for a puppy to wee around the house when you first get it. Many puppies were scared of the dark, as mine was.
In the end i went outside with her in the dark until she got used to it and wasnt scared anymore. I suggest that you maybe keep the pupy in one room when you go to work, leave it with water, food, toys, a bed and plenty of newspaper on the floor.
This website has a lot of infirmhttp://www.allaboutpets.org.uk/web/site/AllAboutPets/Homepage.aspation on..New Puppy Advice?
He's only 7 wks old according to your other questions. You aren't doing anything wrong, he's still just a baby and really has little to no control at this point. Potty training takes weeks to months, not days. Patience is a virtue. To avoid accidents with my little girl, I'd hold her as much as I could, she wasn't going to piddle on me. After she'd go potty, I'd let her down to play or eat, whatever, and when it was getting closer to time for her to need to go, I'd pick her back up and we'd cuddle awhile.
Yes, pick a room, and puppyproof it and that will be fine for while you are gone. You can either put down newspapers or piddle pads to help with the mess.
You can leave him in the yard during the day so he gets more familiar with it and where he's more comfortable to go potty. Then when at home do your house training for the signs of needing to go potty, thus training him for more than one thing at one time and doing it in a way that isn't traumatic or stressful for him or you. You might actually find this more beneficial for the both of you. There will no doubtedly be an accident, it's beyond everyones control.
Gina
crate training works best.. out first thing to pee.. in to eat.. then back out to run and poop..
you must got out everytime and offer an instant soft treat reward every time..
I dont know how old the pup is but you cannot expect to train them over a weekend.. especially if they are under 12 weeks of age..
crate him when you are at work...
as far as mess goes - better food = less mess
http://www.gomestic.com/Pets/What-is-in-鈥?/a>
Could you not build him a run for outside in the garden then he would get used to peeing outside and you would not need to worry about leaving him for four hours.
The best thing to do is restrict him to either one small area or room, or a crate, making sure that there are no electical wires and other things he can chew on. Either put puppy training pads on the floor (these have a scent that attracts the puppy to them) or use newspaper. 4 hours is too long to expect him to be dry but if he's in a small area he should try to go as far from his bed as possible.
Your doing the right things and although he may seem a little nervous when it's dark, don't try to comfort him. He'll pick up the 'wrong' message if you fuss him, so just stay calm and treat it as normal. When he does do something in the dark praise him even more than you do during the day to reinforce the message that he's done the right thing.When he does squat inside (as a baby he's going to have accidents) just pick him up gently and take him outside. Eventually he'll start going to the door when he needs to go.
Get a good cleaner with an odour neutraliser and clean up the accidents as soon as you can, especially on carpet. You need patience and a calm attitude and I'm sure you'll get there quickly.
Enjoy his babyhood and give him a hug from me!
Your doing the right thing! It takes time for new puppies to know where to go and just go there. Leaving him in the crate while you are gone is good too (they won't want to go where they sleep). Don't worry, before you know it he'll be an outdoor peeing champ)!!
I'm pleased to hear that you are housebreaking correctly, restrict him inside to ONE room, basically the kitchen. Do not give him complete freedom of the house unless supervised. You could also try hooking him to a long leash and tieing it to you so he has to stay close to you. Most books do say confine to a room with a floor that is easy to clean, ie kitchen etc. That way if he has an accident it's all in one location. He's still tiny so he might have accidents as he's got a really small bladder so give it time. If he's still doing in in a few weeks then you might want to have him checked for a bladder infection.
As for leaving him during the day, leave him in the kitchen, blocked off and put puppy pads down, give him a bed to sleep on and toys make sure he has water, make sure the room is puppy proofed and come home during lunch to let him out and check on him. If you have a friend that can check on him during the afternoon before you come home that'll work, or look into doggie day care (some vets offer this) or look into a pet walker. If you are only working on monday for 4 hours he will be perfectly fine in the kitchen while you're gone.
Good luck with your new puppy. Remember, get him on a routine as soon as possible.
I've taken care and trained dogs and cats eversince I was little, so hopefully I can help.
As you know, it takes a puppy getting used to going outside, but heres what you can do, praise him and such, and give him a treat, but not everytime! If he goes outside lets say, 3 times with out having an accident, give him a treat, he'll have it set in his mind ';If I keep going outside, I'll get a tastey treat... I wonder what the mailman taste like...';
And while you're away, Try the puppy pads, easy clean up, and it hinders the smell... Not much, but a little.
Hope you can find this of some use.. And good luck with your puppy! Pet him for me!
Firstly, I'm house training him the same way as I did my last dog. Taking him out in the garden every 30 mins, after sleep, play, meal etc - saying a key word, and praising like mad when he goes. Last night was very long winded as he seemed scared of the dark and outside, so was only weeing when I bought him back in. Through the night and today he's been very good, and seems to be toileting on command when I take him out. However, when he's running around inside, he still toilets randomly - so I'm wondering if I'm doing something wrong.
Also, I'm back at work (4 hours) Mon, and I'm struggling with where to leave him. I popped out today for 2 hours, and left him in his box, and he was still asleep when I came back. Obviously he won't stay asleep for 4 hours, so I need to restrict him to one room - is this ok? But I assume I should expect lots of mess!New Puppy Advice?
Its completely normal for a puppy to wee around the house when you first get it. Many puppies were scared of the dark, as mine was.
In the end i went outside with her in the dark until she got used to it and wasnt scared anymore. I suggest that you maybe keep the pupy in one room when you go to work, leave it with water, food, toys, a bed and plenty of newspaper on the floor.
This website has a lot of infirmhttp://www.allaboutpets.org.uk/web/site/AllAboutPets/Homepage.aspation on..New Puppy Advice?
He's only 7 wks old according to your other questions. You aren't doing anything wrong, he's still just a baby and really has little to no control at this point. Potty training takes weeks to months, not days. Patience is a virtue. To avoid accidents with my little girl, I'd hold her as much as I could, she wasn't going to piddle on me. After she'd go potty, I'd let her down to play or eat, whatever, and when it was getting closer to time for her to need to go, I'd pick her back up and we'd cuddle awhile.
Yes, pick a room, and puppyproof it and that will be fine for while you are gone. You can either put down newspapers or piddle pads to help with the mess.
You can leave him in the yard during the day so he gets more familiar with it and where he's more comfortable to go potty. Then when at home do your house training for the signs of needing to go potty, thus training him for more than one thing at one time and doing it in a way that isn't traumatic or stressful for him or you. You might actually find this more beneficial for the both of you. There will no doubtedly be an accident, it's beyond everyones control.
Gina
crate training works best.. out first thing to pee.. in to eat.. then back out to run and poop..
you must got out everytime and offer an instant soft treat reward every time..
I dont know how old the pup is but you cannot expect to train them over a weekend.. especially if they are under 12 weeks of age..
crate him when you are at work...
as far as mess goes - better food = less mess
http://www.gomestic.com/Pets/What-is-in-鈥?/a>
Could you not build him a run for outside in the garden then he would get used to peeing outside and you would not need to worry about leaving him for four hours.
The best thing to do is restrict him to either one small area or room, or a crate, making sure that there are no electical wires and other things he can chew on. Either put puppy training pads on the floor (these have a scent that attracts the puppy to them) or use newspaper. 4 hours is too long to expect him to be dry but if he's in a small area he should try to go as far from his bed as possible.
Your doing the right things and although he may seem a little nervous when it's dark, don't try to comfort him. He'll pick up the 'wrong' message if you fuss him, so just stay calm and treat it as normal. When he does do something in the dark praise him even more than you do during the day to reinforce the message that he's done the right thing.When he does squat inside (as a baby he's going to have accidents) just pick him up gently and take him outside. Eventually he'll start going to the door when he needs to go.
Get a good cleaner with an odour neutraliser and clean up the accidents as soon as you can, especially on carpet. You need patience and a calm attitude and I'm sure you'll get there quickly.
Enjoy his babyhood and give him a hug from me!
Your doing the right thing! It takes time for new puppies to know where to go and just go there. Leaving him in the crate while you are gone is good too (they won't want to go where they sleep). Don't worry, before you know it he'll be an outdoor peeing champ)!!
I'm pleased to hear that you are housebreaking correctly, restrict him inside to ONE room, basically the kitchen. Do not give him complete freedom of the house unless supervised. You could also try hooking him to a long leash and tieing it to you so he has to stay close to you. Most books do say confine to a room with a floor that is easy to clean, ie kitchen etc. That way if he has an accident it's all in one location. He's still tiny so he might have accidents as he's got a really small bladder so give it time. If he's still doing in in a few weeks then you might want to have him checked for a bladder infection.
As for leaving him during the day, leave him in the kitchen, blocked off and put puppy pads down, give him a bed to sleep on and toys make sure he has water, make sure the room is puppy proofed and come home during lunch to let him out and check on him. If you have a friend that can check on him during the afternoon before you come home that'll work, or look into doggie day care (some vets offer this) or look into a pet walker. If you are only working on monday for 4 hours he will be perfectly fine in the kitchen while you're gone.
Good luck with your new puppy. Remember, get him on a routine as soon as possible.
I've taken care and trained dogs and cats eversince I was little, so hopefully I can help.
As you know, it takes a puppy getting used to going outside, but heres what you can do, praise him and such, and give him a treat, but not everytime! If he goes outside lets say, 3 times with out having an accident, give him a treat, he'll have it set in his mind ';If I keep going outside, I'll get a tastey treat... I wonder what the mailman taste like...';
And while you're away, Try the puppy pads, easy clean up, and it hinders the smell... Not much, but a little.
Hope you can find this of some use.. And good luck with your puppy! Pet him for me!
New job... advice needed?
I started my new job at a cattery today. The position requires 3/4 - 1 hour every morning Monday - Friday.
The place opens at 7.30am, at the interview they told me that they don't mind what time I come in, just as long as I finish before 9.00am.
-Today I started at 8.00am. (It's the school holidays for another week) but normally I will probably start at 7.30am, to get to school by 8.40am.
They gave me my contract today to read over and sign for tomorrow... It says that:
';The normal starting times and days are listed below;
Monday to Friday: 7.45 am';.
The person who wrote the contract is the owner (I haven't talked to him at all) and I was told to report to a different person.
So.... my question is.. What time should I show up tomorrow? I want to start at 8.00am.
I don't think that the person I have to give my contract to tomorrow starts until 8 either.New job... advice needed?
Personally, I'd be there at 7:45 a.m. the first day, then scope out what is really expected of you.New job... advice needed?
you will find if your early everyday you will impress the owner .
to be right on time does not show a lot of interest or effort .
Be noticed ,you can still just wake up there and realx .
it is a good way to start the day not just rushing in .
be there at the time stated in the contract just to be on the safe side. make sure when you get there you clear up any problems or questions that you may have about the starting time.
Get there at 7:45 tomorrow and then clarify the time with whom ever you are reporting to.
If your contract says show up at 7:45, then show up at or before 7:45 for at least the first few weeks until you feel pretty comfortable guaging whether it actually matters or not. I would say that generally, it does not matter. Most people and companies are at least a little bit flexible. But not all are, so it's best to err on the side of caution.
And if you have been doing a good job for a few weeks, it gives you a little bit of ground to stand on if you need to approach your manager and tell them 7:45 is a hardship on you for one reason or another and it would be much easier if it was 8.
The place opens at 7.30am, at the interview they told me that they don't mind what time I come in, just as long as I finish before 9.00am.
-Today I started at 8.00am. (It's the school holidays for another week) but normally I will probably start at 7.30am, to get to school by 8.40am.
They gave me my contract today to read over and sign for tomorrow... It says that:
';The normal starting times and days are listed below;
Monday to Friday: 7.45 am';.
The person who wrote the contract is the owner (I haven't talked to him at all) and I was told to report to a different person.
So.... my question is.. What time should I show up tomorrow? I want to start at 8.00am.
I don't think that the person I have to give my contract to tomorrow starts until 8 either.New job... advice needed?
Personally, I'd be there at 7:45 a.m. the first day, then scope out what is really expected of you.New job... advice needed?
you will find if your early everyday you will impress the owner .
to be right on time does not show a lot of interest or effort .
Be noticed ,you can still just wake up there and realx .
it is a good way to start the day not just rushing in .
be there at the time stated in the contract just to be on the safe side. make sure when you get there you clear up any problems or questions that you may have about the starting time.
Get there at 7:45 tomorrow and then clarify the time with whom ever you are reporting to.
If your contract says show up at 7:45, then show up at or before 7:45 for at least the first few weeks until you feel pretty comfortable guaging whether it actually matters or not. I would say that generally, it does not matter. Most people and companies are at least a little bit flexible. But not all are, so it's best to err on the side of caution.
And if you have been doing a good job for a few weeks, it gives you a little bit of ground to stand on if you need to approach your manager and tell them 7:45 is a hardship on you for one reason or another and it would be much easier if it was 8.
New Friend advice??...I need ur views...?
Hi all,
ok this new friend of mine (it's a she), is soo nice to me.
i have a crush on her but i do not know if she feels the same
way as i do. We've made friends through facebook but hasn't met one another yet.
We knew each other for about a month plus, messaging each other on fb, msn and she even
gave me her phone number without me asking for it.
Ok, since she is new to me,
she said stuffs like calling me babe, sexy, winks, and suddenly she
said ';love ya'; to me. Another thing, she even
text me saying good morning dearie right smack in the morning at 6 am.. maybe cus
she's going to work lol..but still...it's 6 am! i found it was soo sweet of her..especially
since shes a new friend..don't you think so? i mean i've made some new friends but they
aren;t as nice as her or can't be bothered/playing hard to get..u know..
So, i wanna know, how should i be closer to her as a NEW FRIEND? Bear in mind we are new
to each other and it seems like we're kinda comfortable. Or if u
have a nice text messages, mind sharing it with me?New Friend advice??...I need ur views...?
I would find out some of the things she likes to do - do fun original things, maybe stuff that her other friends don't do all the time. For example, when I'm trying to become closer to someone, I might find a band the person likes and buy concert tickets. This shows that you pay attention to her interests and also that you are a generous person. And I'm sure you would have a great time at a concert.
I also just like to hang out and get drinks or food or something and just talk. Ask questions. I like listening to people tell me about their childhood or best memories. Ask insightful questions and really listen to the answers.
It sounds like she definitely could be flirting with you, especially if she knows you are into women. Do you know if she's gay/bi?
Just continue with the friendly texting, and like I said, find something fun and original to do. She has obviously done things that make her stick out in your mind (early morning texts) so do some things that will make you stick out in hers!acne treatment
ok this new friend of mine (it's a she), is soo nice to me.
i have a crush on her but i do not know if she feels the same
way as i do. We've made friends through facebook but hasn't met one another yet.
We knew each other for about a month plus, messaging each other on fb, msn and she even
gave me her phone number without me asking for it.
Ok, since she is new to me,
she said stuffs like calling me babe, sexy, winks, and suddenly she
said ';love ya'; to me. Another thing, she even
text me saying good morning dearie right smack in the morning at 6 am.. maybe cus
she's going to work lol..but still...it's 6 am! i found it was soo sweet of her..especially
since shes a new friend..don't you think so? i mean i've made some new friends but they
aren;t as nice as her or can't be bothered/playing hard to get..u know..
So, i wanna know, how should i be closer to her as a NEW FRIEND? Bear in mind we are new
to each other and it seems like we're kinda comfortable. Or if u
have a nice text messages, mind sharing it with me?New Friend advice??...I need ur views...?
I would find out some of the things she likes to do - do fun original things, maybe stuff that her other friends don't do all the time. For example, when I'm trying to become closer to someone, I might find a band the person likes and buy concert tickets. This shows that you pay attention to her interests and also that you are a generous person. And I'm sure you would have a great time at a concert.
I also just like to hang out and get drinks or food or something and just talk. Ask questions. I like listening to people tell me about their childhood or best memories. Ask insightful questions and really listen to the answers.
It sounds like she definitely could be flirting with you, especially if she knows you are into women. Do you know if she's gay/bi?
Just continue with the friendly texting, and like I said, find something fun and original to do. She has obviously done things that make her stick out in your mind (early morning texts) so do some things that will make you stick out in hers!
New Hair Advice?
I am soooo bored of my hair! Ive had it cut like this for so long. I really like the length but im willing to go a bit shorter. Any ideas of what style would look good on me?
http://i165.photobucket.com/albums/u41/Lovely_Cyanide/stuff089.jpg 9 (my hair down)
http://i165.photobucket.com/albums/u41/Lovely_Cyanide/stuff0342.jpg (my hair up)New Hair Advice?
i personally like your style as it is! i know you're bored with it though so that doesn't really matter. you could use a trim though, your ends are a little fried. sorry.
http://i165.photobucket.com/albums/u41/Lovely_Cyanide/stuff089.jpg 9 (my hair down)
http://i165.photobucket.com/albums/u41/Lovely_Cyanide/stuff0342.jpg (my hair up)New Hair Advice?
i personally like your style as it is! i know you're bored with it though so that doesn't really matter. you could use a trim though, your ends are a little fried. sorry.
I want a new start....Advice?
I have never known what I've wanted to do in life careerwise. I've had thoughts of what I wanted out of a career: good money, that allows me time to travel to different places. I just don't know what my interests are. I just got out of a 6 year relationship that has lasted since I was 15. All I know is I want to be free and go somewhere new. However, I do not have the financial means to do so at the moment. But I am thinking about saving to do something, but i don't know just what. I have always just wanted to be independent and see things. But I live at home with my parents in New Orleans and I have always hated it here since I was a kid. I am also very introverted. So, any careers that you think I would like, please share with me. ThanksI want a new start....Advice?
Most people in Chalmette have the wander-lust. Especially since Katrina blew the place away.
What about being a tour guide?I want a new start....Advice?
i sorta feel like you.. im 19, i just got out of a long relationship and dont know what i want. im in my second year of college (i commute and live at home) and still am undecided on a career.
if you dont have a facebook, try making one and looking for guys =]. i just made one last week, a great decision. also try getting a new job, you always meet new people when you get a new job.
as far as a career, just do research. ive been looking up the top paying jobs of 2007-2009. just use google to research careers that have components you like. there is also a test you can take called MBTI (i believe) that can tell you alot about yourself and which career would be best for you. it costs $10 i think, but it might be worth it for you.
if you get a good deal of money from your new job try moving out, it could be really fun and a new exciting experience.
once you start to find yourself you wont be so introverted because youll be confident in who you are. im fairly introverted but since i started taking up a few hobbies (drawing, exercise, piano, videogames) i am just becoming more extroverted and confident.
save money and hop on a train
Most people in Chalmette have the wander-lust. Especially since Katrina blew the place away.
What about being a tour guide?I want a new start....Advice?
i sorta feel like you.. im 19, i just got out of a long relationship and dont know what i want. im in my second year of college (i commute and live at home) and still am undecided on a career.
if you dont have a facebook, try making one and looking for guys =]. i just made one last week, a great decision. also try getting a new job, you always meet new people when you get a new job.
as far as a career, just do research. ive been looking up the top paying jobs of 2007-2009. just use google to research careers that have components you like. there is also a test you can take called MBTI (i believe) that can tell you alot about yourself and which career would be best for you. it costs $10 i think, but it might be worth it for you.
if you get a good deal of money from your new job try moving out, it could be really fun and a new exciting experience.
once you start to find yourself you wont be so introverted because youll be confident in who you are. im fairly introverted but since i started taking up a few hobbies (drawing, exercise, piano, videogames) i am just becoming more extroverted and confident.
save money and hop on a train
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